Cold, insidious.

There is a more insidious world against you which has to do with the socialization process. The expectation of men to be the strong one is a hell of an expectation. It’s actually terrible—because what do you do with all the real human vulnerability?

You have to become the superhero, the big muscled man. And yet you’re just a person—some of you is strong and some of you is weak. You’re just a person. And a full person has all the vulnerability in the world.

We need men’s liberation—to liberate men from the shackles of having to be a warrior, and perfect, and a soldier, and a killer, and a big muscled man, to just be a person.

You don’t wanna be in family court. And you don’t wanna be a black man in any court.

There is coldness you have to accept when you’re a man, especially a black man. Its like the world’s cold as a motherfucker, ok? Only women, children and dogs are loved unconditionally… A man is only loved under the condition that he provides something.





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